{"id":5878,"date":"2010-09-28T16:35:41","date_gmt":"2010-09-28T20:35:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=5878"},"modified":"2010-10-04T02:45:13","modified_gmt":"2010-10-04T06:45:13","slug":"catfish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=5878","title":{"rendered":"Catfish"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5882\" title=\"catfish4\" src=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish4-300x166.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"166\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish4-300x166.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish4.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Last year, when I wrote about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=2157\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>Straightlaced: How Gender\u2019s Got Us All Tied Up<\/em><\/span><\/a>, I suggested that it was some sort of miracle that a movie directed with such condescension and pandering was still engaging and entertaining. When one of the most dominant elements of production is off-putting, it\u2019s unlikely that a viewer will be able to even finish a movie, let alone enjoy it.<\/p>\n<p>So does the fact that Nev Schulman, the \u201chero\u201d of the is-it-real documentary <em>Catfish<\/em>, comes off like a smug, sneering, cruel, elitist, club kid mean that the movie is unwatchable? No, it doesn\u2019t because despite all of these problems, which include how insufferable Nev\u2019s brother (and co-director of the film along with the beach-bum-version of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=141\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Val Kilmer<\/span><\/a>-looking Henry Joost) Ariel is, the subject matter is more interesting than the approach.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish5.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5883\" title=\"catfish5\" src=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish5.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" \/><\/a>The ads for <em>Catfish<\/em> tell you not to read anything about the film so as not to spoil the surprises, but the surprise might be just how inconsequential the film is. Essentially, it\u2019s about being potentially duplicitous on Facebook and whether or not honesty over the internet is more than a social requirement and responsibility. Does it really matter if you inflate who you are? When does delusion become irrelevant?<\/p>\n<p>Nev (who has mannerisms like Cameron Frye from <em>Ferris Bueller\u2019s Day Off<\/em>, but is a visual dead ringer for <a href=\"http:\/\/www.imdb.com\/name\/nm0000628\/\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Jonathon Schaech<\/span><\/a>) begins a phone-dating relationship with the sister of a young girl who has, unbeknownst to him, painted some of his published photographs and sent them to him in NY from a small town in Michigan. It\u2019s right here, in the first few minutes that the issue of believability sets in; are we in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=5815\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Joaquin-Phoenix-fakery-land<\/span><\/a>? Why would someone start running the camera simply because you got a package in the mail? What importance would that have unless you knew it would lead somewhere dramatic? And the nagging feeling that what we\u2019re seeing is staged comes up over and over, from the fact that the movie would have us believe that the directors are the laziest researchers in the world and can\u2019t even do a cursory Google search to verify information, to the number of times leading up to the \u201cadventure\u201d and \u201cdiscovery\u201d of vital plot points that it would absolutely make no sense to have the camera recording.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5879\" title=\"catfish1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/catfish1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"284\" height=\"177\" \/><\/a>And just like with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=5815\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>I\u2019m Still Here<\/em><\/span><\/a>, I think it\u2019s irrelevant whether or not the movie is a hoax, because like the upcoming <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=5891\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>The Social Network<\/em><\/span><\/a>, one of the underlining points the movie seems to be making is how individuals refuse to believe that anyone else could possibly be smarter or more interesting than they are. Nev\u2019s behavior is predicated on his being so unctuous, and it\u2019s of no surprise that his decision making throughout the film is based on the idea that he believes the girl he is \u201cdating\u201d is quite physically attractive. If she\u2019s an average-looking Midwestern girl, there\u2019s no movie. I use the word girl on purpose, because, starting with his letter writing back and forth with the 8 year-old painting prodigy Abby, that the queasy pedophilia issue first rears its head. When Nev is concerned that his soon-to-be-beau Megan might be under 18, he\u2019s relieved when she reassures him. But is it true just because she says it is? Isn\u2019t the whole point that Nev thinks he\u2019s dating a girl with model looks, and more importantly a virgin, that wants him to deflower her?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5880\" title=\"Catfish2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish2-300x168.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish2-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish2.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>When Nev and the filmmakers go on a road trip to Michigan, inquiring about local real estate ownership from the real estate agent Irving Krellwitz, justifying their East coast superiority and gawking at the local poverty*, but mostly to surprise Megan, their disappointment with having to deal with Megan\u2019s mother, the rotund and elliptical Angela, is too obvious. Talking to Angela about Abby\u2019s paintings and how correspondence with Nev has inspired Abby (there\u2019s a strong echo of <em>My Kid Could Paint That<\/em>), is an obstacle that\u2019s in the way of sex with a willing, beautiful, inexperienced partner. It gives the movie\u2019s best scene, where Nev embarrassingly reads out loud his more explicit text messages to Megan, far more pathos, because you realize that Nev isn\u2019t a pro at this either. Megan is appealing to Nev not just for the fantasy-girl looks, but because she wouldn\u2019t know any better if he were a terrible sexual partner.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish3.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5881\" title=\"Catfish3\" src=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish3-300x168.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish3-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/Catfish3.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>* If there\u2019s anything to make you cringe about <em>Catfish<\/em>, it\u2019s not the uncomfortable search for the truth, nor the oddly suspenseful sections in the second half of the movie, but the inherent smug tsking that Nev, Ariel, and Henry engage in. Oh these hillbillies and their poor dental hygiene! How could they possibly know anything about the world living in the middle of nowhere, especially compared to me, originating from the mecca of diversity and intelligence known as New York City? To paraphrase Aaron Sorkin\u2019s witty dialogue in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=5891\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>The Social Network<\/em>,<\/span><\/a> \u201cyou\u2019re going to go through life thinking that girls\/people don\u2019t like you because you\u2019re a nerd\/New Yorker\/Liberal Jew. And I want you to know that from the bottom of my heart, that\u2019s not true. It\u2019ll be because you\u2019re an asshole.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last year, when I wrote about Straightlaced: How Gender\u2019s Got Us All Tied Up, I suggested that it was some sort of miracle that a movie directed with such condescension and pandering was still engaging and entertaining. 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