{"id":8105,"date":"2012-03-22T16:58:08","date_gmt":"2012-03-22T20:58:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=8105"},"modified":"2014-06-18T03:57:48","modified_gmt":"2014-06-18T07:57:48","slug":"a-man-in-love-with-bonus-clip","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=8105","title":{"rendered":"A Man in Love (with bonus clip)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000052.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8177\" title=\"amaninlove00005\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000052-300x125.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"125\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000052-300x125.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000052-900x377.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000052.jpg 1023w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>It\u2019s quite a bold move to try to explore mediocrity. Most of us never rise above it anyway. But if you have talent and you use it to look at those who can\u2019t get past the middle, it can be seen as condescending and\/or gloating. That\u2019s why the context of mediocrity is so important; when you have the Metallica documentary <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=255\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>Some Kind of Monster<\/em><\/span><\/a><\/span>, which is a 2 \u00bd hour magnum opus on playing to the middle and not having your heart in your art, the key is that Metallica appears to have no idea how cynical and sad the whole thing is. Sure, you\u2019d think that the co-directors, the savvy filmmakers Joe Berlinger and Bruce Sinofsky, who\u2019ve collaborated on <em>Brother\u2019s Keeper <\/em>and the three <em>Paradise Lost <\/em>films, would have the wherewithal to recognize how they presented their subjects, as spoiled crybabies who ought to just retire instead of pumping the soulless nothing that was their <em>St. Anger <\/em>album. But, no, according to their audio commentary, Sinofsky and Berlinger think they\u2019ve made an incisive \u201cherpes warts and all\u201d film, that shows the band from all sides.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000152.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8187\" title=\"amaninlove00015\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000152-300x121.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"121\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000152-300x121.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000152-900x365.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000152.jpg 1022w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>The more effective way to look at mediocrity is how Francoise Truffaut dealt with it in <em>Day for Night<\/em>, honest, yet loaded with exuberance within the meta-commentary about making movies. Truffaut plays a version of himself, working on an international co-production with an American star (Jacqueline Bisset, in her best role) and a script rife with compromises. The film they\u2019re making is called <em>Meet Pamela<\/em>, and from what we see, it\u2019s professionally done, but totally forgettable. The footage is competent, but inert, death for what appears to be a romantic drama. Truffaut shows us how much work goes into such a project and that going through the motions is just as hard, if not more difficult than really believing in what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000012.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8173\" title=\"amaninlove00001\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000012-300x126.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000012-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000012-900x379.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000012.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Diane Kurys\u2019 <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.daaveedee.com\/product_info.php?products_id=119630\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><em>A Man in Love<\/em><\/span><\/a><\/span> hangs somewhere in between <em>Some Kind of Monster <\/em>and <em>Day for Night<\/em>; it\u2019s about an American star (Peter Coyote) traveling to Italy to make a well-meaning but ponderous and clich\u00e9d biopic of Italian poet Cesar Pavese. Does Kurys know that this biopic is mediocre? Sometimes, when we see Coyote\u2019s spoiled and self-indulgent movie star behaving like a prima donna instead of doing his job, she seems totally aware of what she\u2019s doing. And then there are other sections of the film, such as the parents of the actress (Greta Sccachi) that Coyote falls in love with, and their troubles with Scacchi\u2019s mother\u2019s cancer that suggest that Kurys forgot which part of her film was <em>supposed <\/em>to be a parody of limp melodrama. Scacchi\u2019s mother, played by Claudia Cardinale, is appropriately distant and sad without overdoing it, but her husband, played by John Berry is a complete cartoon. First he\u2019s barging onto the set and demanding a magazine interview with Coyote, almost getting his daughter fired before she\u2019s even accepted the supporting part she\u2019s been offered, and then he\u2019s supposed to be the supportive, understanding father doting on his dying wife in other scenes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000032.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8175\" title=\"amaninlove00003\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000032-300x126.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000032-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000032-900x380.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000032.jpg 1023w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Now part of the problem with Berry\u2019s performance is how out of place he looks. Not just as a character, but physically. He\u2019s supposed to be Greta Scacchi\u2019s father, and the husband of the still gorgeous Cardinale. Scacchi and Cardinale look somewhat alike and match up as a mother and daughter, but Berry looks like Walter Matthau after a sleepless night of boozing and poker. Kurys might have been better off just referring to Berry as Scacchi\u2019s stepfather so we wouldn\u2019t spend most of his scenes trying to do the genetic math in our heads.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000142.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8186\" title=\"amaninlove00014\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000142-300x126.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000142-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000142-900x380.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000142.jpg 1023w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>And just like with <em>Some Kind of Monster <\/em>there is little sense of perspective; Coyote\u2019s boorishness may be part of the point, but Scacchi\u2019s character lives with her parents on an enormous French villa, and she enters her relationship with Coyote with complete knowledge that he\u2019s married and has two children, but that he\u2019s never going to leave his wife (Jamie Lee Curtis). Yet she still finds time to get jealous. Scacchi is cheating on her possessive French boyfriend, and it\u2019s unclear what she sees in the spindly Coyote, unless it\u2019s that he\u2019s a 40 year-old-infant who knows how to properly manipulate his wife<em>.<\/em> These two lovers are hardly secretive and they find themselves rollicking in a rich people\u2019s melodrama with beautiful sets and expansive widescreen photography<a href=\"http:\/\/www.regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=8134#Apart\">*<\/a>. Are we supposed to laugh at Coyote**, a man so vain that in order to maintain his erection while <em>already<\/em> inside a woman, he needs her to talk dirty to him?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000442.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8140\" title=\"amaninlove00044\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000442-300x126.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000442-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000442-900x380.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000442.jpg 1023w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>The movie\u2019s real hero is played by Peter Riegert, who is Coyote\u2019s gopher\/assistant, always there to cover up his messes and appease his constant childish whims. Riegert has a couple of great scenes with Curtis, as he sarcastically (but not really) flirts with her, while using himself as a shield for Coyote\u2019s indiscretions. Curtis knows quite well what\u2019s going on, and her brief appearances are the only time Coyote\u2019s character has to actually deal with something tangible and real. He has a witty moment where Curtis is complaining about their child walking in on the nanny in the bathroom, and how she was naked, and therefore she has to be fired. Coyote responds with, \u201cshe <em>was <\/em>a lousy nanny, she never showed me anything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000092.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8181\" title=\"amaninlove00009\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000092-300x125.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"125\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000092-300x125.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000092-900x377.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000092.jpg 1019w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Moments like that is where Kurys forgets she\u2019s making an epic and reveals her gifts when she\u2019s willing to scale back and be intimate. She may have hired George Delerue to write one of his beautiful tragedy scores*** but then she\u2019ll throw in a scene like the one in the video below. This scene has virtually nothing to do with anything (and no, I did not artificially speed up the footage) within the film, it\u2019s just an isolated piece of vaudeville with one or two shots of Scacchi in there to justify itself.<\/p>\n<div id=\"wpfp_de3ff92a3d88a4618bf96b17fb447eaf\" data-item=\"{&quot;sources&quot;:[{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;http:\\\/\\\/regrettablesincerity.com\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2012\\\/03\\\/amaninloveclip1.flv&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;video\\\/mp4&quot;}]}\" class=\"flowplayer no-brand is-splash is-paused skin-slim no-svg fp-slim fp-edgy\" data-engine=\"flash\" data-fv-embed=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=8105&amp;fv_player_embed=1\" style=\"position:relative; max-width: 100%; max-height: 100%; \" data-ratio=\"0.5625\">\n\t<div class=\"fp-ratio\" style=\"padding-top: 56.25%\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"fp-ui\"><noscript>Please enable JavaScript<\/noscript><div class=\"fp-play fp-visible\"><svg class=\"fp-play-sharp-fill\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" viewBox=\"0 0 100 100\"><defs><style>.fp-color-play{opacity:0.65;}.controlbutton{fill:#fff;}<\/style><\/defs><title>play-sharp-fill<\/title><path class=\"fp-color-play\" d=\"M49.9217-.078a50,50,0,1,0,50,50A50.0564,50.0564,0,0,0,49.9217-.078Z\"\/><polygon class=\"controlbutton\" points=\"73.601 50 37.968 70.573 37.968 29.427 73.601 50\" filter=\"url(#f1)\"\/><\/svg><\/div><div class=\"fp-preload\"><b><\/b><b><\/b><b><\/b><b><\/b><\/div><\/div>\n<div class='fvp-share-bar'><ul class=\"fvp-sharing\">\r\n    <li><a class=\"sharing-facebook\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fregrettablesincerity.com%2F%3Fp%3D8105\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/li>\r\n    <li><a class=\"sharing-twitter\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?text=A+Regrettable+Moment+of+Sincerity+&url=https%3A%2F%2Fregrettablesincerity.com%2F%3Fp%3D8105\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/li>\r\n    <li><a class=\"sharing-email\" href=\"mailto:?body=Check%20out%20the%20amazing%20video%20here%3A%20https%3A%2F%2Fregrettablesincerity.com%2F%3Fp%3D8105\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><\/li><\/ul><div><a class=\"sharing-link\" href=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/?p=8105\" target=\"_blank\">Link<\/a><\/div><div><label><a class=\"embed-code-toggle\" href=\"#\"><strong>Embed<\/strong><\/a><\/label><\/div><div class=\"embed-code\"><label>Copy and paste this HTML code into your webpage to embed.<\/label><textarea><\/textarea><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000072.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8179\" title=\"amaninlove00007\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000072-300x127.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"127\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000072-300x127.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000072-900x381.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000072.jpg 1022w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Then there are the sex scenes which are very erotic, surprisingly so since they feature Scacchi and Coyote, two characters who are generally unappealing. But it isn\u2019t as if Coyote suddenly becomes sympathetic; he has a moment that\u2019s a lot funnier now than it would have been in 1987. While reading a trade magazine, he says \u201coh, De Niro is doing a new film,\u201d which is Coyote\u2019s way of comparing himself to how De Niro used to be thought of, that of a highly respected actor. Now it plays like Coyote\u2019s character is mocking De Niro\u2019s script choices, as in \u201coh, it\u2019s been a whole week since the last De Niro film, I wonder what Focker sequel is in the pipeline.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000373.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8196\" title=\"amaninlove00037\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000373-300x127.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"127\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000373-300x127.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000373-900x381.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000373.jpg 1023w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>Kurys may have been able to sell the film on the promise of the nudity and sex scenes (the first of which is shot nearly silently, and without body parts exposed), but it\u2019s obvious she wanted to make a tribute to the movies that inspired her, so we see what looks to be the famous fountain from <em>La Dolce Vita<\/em>, exteriors being shot at Cinecitt\u00e0 studios, and gobs of visual references to <em>8 \u00bd<\/em>, and other famous films about making movies. She isn\u2019t entirely successful at whatever she intended, as <em>A Man in Love <\/em>tends to be slow and a bit repetitive, but the pacing helps in giving us time to see how the other characters view Coyote. The title may refer to Coyote\u2019s obsession with his own wonders, but it\u2019s clear that in her way, Kurys has really made it about her love for the artificiality of cinema. But mostly her love of mediocrity.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000172.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8189\" title=\"amaninlove00017\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000172-300x126.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000172-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000172-900x378.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000172.jpg 1022w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>* Apart from its very brief theatrical run in 1987, <em>A Man in Love <\/em>has only ever been available in a pan and scan format on VHS and laserdisc. Netflix has one of these 1.33 atrocities in its streaming roster. What I used for this review was the French DVD that I got from Daaveedee.com <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.daaveedee.com\/product_info.php?products_id=119630\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">here<\/span><\/a>. <span style=\"color: #000000;\">The DVD has an anamorphic 2.35 transfer that\u2019s a little soft and doesn\u2019t translate the occasional brief scene in French or Italian (the meanings are not difficult to figure out though). It also runs a few minutes longer than the American cut. It has an interview with Kurys and <\/span><\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=O4_zinsVfhQ\">this French trailer<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\"> for the film. And besides this disc, your options are\u2026 a Russian disc that contains the same cut, but is entirely dubbed into Russian.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000362.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8197\" title=\"amaninlove00036\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000362-300x127.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"127\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000362-300x127.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000362-900x382.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000362.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>** Coyote even has to contend with one of those \u201cwho do you think you are\u201d scenes, about as original an utterance of the time tested <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/24669583\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">\u201cyou don\u2019t get it, do you?\u201d<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000402.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8199\" title=\"amaninlove00040\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000402-300x126.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000402-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000402-900x380.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000402.jpg 1023w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>*** Delerue also scored <em>Day for Night <\/em>and virtually every other memorable European film from <em>Shoot the Piano Player<\/em> on through to his work with American directors like Oliver Stone, Mike Nichols, John Hughes, Steven Spielberg, etc. He died in 1992 and has an astonishing 351 film composer credits. No, he did not die of exhaustion. Or mediocrity.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000222.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8200\" title=\"amaninlove00022\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000222-300x126.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"126\" srcset=\"https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000222-300x126.jpg 300w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000222-900x380.jpg 900w, https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninlove000222.jpg 1022w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can find this rare, widescreen version of <em>A Man in Love<\/em> at <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.daaveedee.com\/product_info.php?products_id=119630\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Daaveedee.com<\/span><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_flv\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninloveclip1.flv\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw('https:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/?powerpress_pinw=8105-podcast');\" rel=\"nofollow\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"http:\/\/regrettablesincerity.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/03\/amaninloveclip1.flv\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow\" download=\"amaninloveclip1.flv\">Download<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s quite a bold move to try to explore mediocrity. Most of us never rise above it anyway. But if you have talent and you use it to look at those who can\u2019t get past the middle, it can be seen as condescending and\/or gloating. 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